Honesty as Default
Preferences are not flaws. We design every screen so members can state what they want - and what they offer - without apology. Read more about why the preference is valid.
BPDating is a verified, female-friendly XL dating platform built by a team that has spent 15+ years inside the niche dating space. We exist for one reason: to make the size conversation a normal part of finding a compatible partner - not a taboo whispered after the fourth date.
Award-winning ยท Operated by DMCUBED LTD, Chester UK ยท 184,000+ verified members
For two decades, mainstream dating apps treated penis size as the topic that didn't exist. Women who cared felt labelled shallow for asking. Men who had something to share felt awkward volunteering it. The result was a strange, expensive silence - weeks of polite chats ending in mismatched expectations and mutual disappointment.
no judgment, no taboo, no wasted weeks.
BPDating was created to break that silence. We built a platform where size sits on the profile next to age and city, where verification is mandatory rather than optional, and where women set the safety defaults. Our hypothesis was simple: if honesty is built into the product, the awkwardness disappears. Five years and 184,000+ verified members later, the data backs us up - 94% of surveyed members say they prefer honest disclosure to the guessing game.
Three principles guide every product decision, from profile design to moderation policy.
Preferences are not flaws. We design every screen so members can state what they want - and what they offer - without apology. Read more about why the preference is valid.
We would rather have 184,000 liveness-verified members than 18 million ghost profiles. Every account passes a real-time face check before sending a single message.
Auto-blur, anonymous browsing, mutual-consent image requests, 24-hour human moderation. The defaults protect women - and the platform is better for everyone because of it.
Our founder has spent more than a decade and a half building dating products inside spaces the mainstream refused to touch. That experience - running platforms for size-conscious daters, BBW communities, and other under-served niches - taught one lesson above all others: the audience knows what it wants. Your job as a builder is to listen and remove the friction.
Today the BPDating team includes product designers, trust-and-safety analysts, and community managers, all reporting through DMCUBED LTD in Chester, UK. Our work has been recognised by the industry's two leading authorities:
Recognition is nice, but the metric that matters is whether our members are matching with people they actually want to meet. By that measure - see the platform walkthrough for details - we are doing the job we set out to do.
Two members, two paths to BPDating, one shared verdict on what makes the platform different.
After my divorce I spent a year on mainstream apps feeling like I had to stay quiet about what I actually want. BPDating made me feel I wasn't shallow for having a preference. It's the first place I haven't felt judged.
I almost quit dating apps entirely. The first week on BPDating I had three honest conversations and one real date. The verification badge made me trust who I was talking to - that alone is worth the signup.
Quantitative proof of what an honest, verified, female-friendly XL dating platform can build.
Full transparency on who runs the platform, where we're registered, and how to reach us.
| Legal Entity | DMCUBED LTD |
| Company Number | 06036262 |
| Registered Office | 9 Pembroke Close, Chester, CH4 7BS, United Kingdom |
| Governing Law | England & Wales |
| Member Support | WhatsApp +44 (0) 7442 703816 |
| Last Updated | 5 May 2026 |
Have a question we haven't answered here? Visit our full FAQ for member-focused answers, or read the online dating safety guide for our trust-and-safety approach.
184,000+ verified members are already having the size-honest conversations they spent years searching for. Your turn.
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