About BPDating

About BPDating: Honest Dating for Honest Preferences

BPDating is a verified, female-friendly XL dating platform built by a team that has spent 15+ years inside the niche dating space. We exist for one reason: to make the size conversation a normal part of finding a compatible partner - not a taboo whispered after the fourth date.

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Award-winning ยท Operated by DMCUBED LTD, Chester UK ยท 184,000+ verified members

Our Story

Our Story: Ending Swipe Culture's Quiet Shame

For two decades, mainstream dating apps treated penis size as the topic that didn't exist. Women who cared felt labelled shallow for asking. Men who had something to share felt awkward volunteering it. The result was a strange, expensive silence - weeks of polite chats ending in mismatched expectations and mutual disappointment.

no judgment, no taboo, no wasted weeks.

BPDating was created to break that silence. We built a platform where size sits on the profile next to age and city, where verification is mandatory rather than optional, and where women set the safety defaults. Our hypothesis was simple: if honesty is built into the product, the awkwardness disappears. Five years and 184,000+ verified members later, the data backs us up - 94% of surveyed members say they prefer honest disclosure to the guessing game.

What Drives Us

What We Stand For

Three principles guide every product decision, from profile design to moderation policy.

Principle 01

Honesty as Default

Preferences are not flaws. We design every screen so members can state what they want - and what they offer - without apology. Read more about why the preference is valid.

Principle 02

Verification Over Volume

We would rather have 184,000 liveness-verified members than 18 million ghost profiles. Every account passes a real-time face check before sending a single message.

Principle 03

Female-First Safety

Auto-blur, anonymous browsing, mutual-consent image requests, 24-hour human moderation. The defaults protect women - and the platform is better for everyone because of it.

BPDating founder portrait - 15-year veteran of the niche dating industry
Founder & Team

15+ Years in Niche Dating

Our founder has spent more than a decade and a half building dating products inside spaces the mainstream refused to touch. That experience - running platforms for size-conscious daters, BBW communities, and other under-served niches - taught one lesson above all others: the audience knows what it wants. Your job as a builder is to listen and remove the friction.

Today the BPDating team includes product designers, trust-and-safety analysts, and community managers, all reporting through DMCUBED LTD in Chester, UK. Our work has been recognised by the industry's two leading authorities:

๐Ÿ† Global Dating Insights Award ๐Ÿ† UK Dating Awards Honoree โญ 4.7 Avg Member Rating ๐Ÿ›ก Featured in industry trust reports

Recognition is nice, but the metric that matters is whether our members are matching with people they actually want to meet. By that measure - see the platform walkthrough for details - we are doing the job we set out to do.

Voices That Matter

Members Validate the Mission

Two members, two paths to BPDating, one shared verdict on what makes the platform different.

After my divorce I spent a year on mainstream apps feeling like I had to stay quiet about what I actually want. BPDating made me feel I wasn't shallow for having a preference. It's the first place I haven't felt judged.

Jessica Hart portrait
Jessica Hart 38, Manchester, UK

I almost quit dating apps entirely. The first week on BPDating I had three honest conversations and one real date. The verification badge made me trust who I was talking to - that alone is worth the signup.

Maya Thompson portrait
Maya Thompson 31, Denver, USA
Receipts

BPDating by the Numbers

Quantitative proof of what an honest, verified, female-friendly XL dating platform can build.

184000 Verified members BPDating internal data, May 2026
15 + yrs Niche dating experience Founder track record
2 Industry awards won GDI & UK Dating Awards
94 % Member satisfaction Q1 2026 member survey
The Company

Company Information

Full transparency on who runs the platform, where we're registered, and how to reach us.

Operator
Legal EntityDMCUBED LTD
Company Number06036262
Registered Office9 Pembroke Close, Chester, CH4 7BS, United Kingdom
Governing LawEngland & Wales
Member SupportWhatsApp +44 (0) 7442 703816
Last Updated5 May 2026

Have a question we haven't answered here? Visit our full FAQ for member-focused answers, or read the online dating safety guide for our trust-and-safety approach.

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Join the honest side of dating - no judgment.

184,000+ verified members are already having the size-honest conversations they spent years searching for. Your turn.

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